Love is a skill, not a feeling: 6 definitions of love from “Relationships” by Alain de Botton

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Relationships is a book I revisit regularly. It reminds me that relationships aren’t supposed to effortless. In Ted Lasso’s words, “Taking on a challenge is a lot like riding a horse, isn’t it? If you’re comfortable while you’re doing it, you’re probably doing it wrong.” Things that are meaningful take work, and they are…